LONELINESS KILLS!
If you think this is a lie, why don’t you ask the rat who you
kept staving in your apartment, ask the ant whom you saw working alone, ask a
convicted newly married man, ask a pregnant lonely mother or a single nursing
mother, ask the guy who train his girlfriend all the way through the
university, and the girl marries another, ask someone who is left in the middle
of an ocean, ask a rich stem that lacks leaves, ask the letter “I”.
The truth is no one makes it alone, people
come and gives you words of encouragement, and tells you that success is the
best key, that without success you are invincible. Well that part is true but
when he was giving you that food for thought, he never mentioned that you
should do it alone or with somebody. It is now left for you to decipher a part
for you to make it. You don’t go out and try to make it on your own, you have
to look for help, seek advice from people who are
above your level, combine effort with people who have the same ideology that you
have. You see, a tree can never ever make a forest; a drop of water
cannot make an ocean but you see drops of water can. If you are only looking
out for yourself, lookout. Because yourself cannot save you, Wesley Huber
said,” there is nothing quite dead as a self centered man-a man who holds up
himself as a self made success, and measures himself by himself and is pleased
with the result.” Don’t become a legend in your own mind.
Norman Vincent
peale discovered,” the man who lives for himself is a failure. Even if he gains
much wealth, power, position, he is still a failure” conceit makes us fool,
even the book of proverbs tells us “do you see a man wise in his own eyes? There
is more hope for a fool than from him. Lower your ego and work with others,
egotism is the only disease where the patient feels well while making everyone
else around him feel sick, pride and egos. They blossom; they are very
admirable in some ways but bear no fruit. Learn to work together with your people,
so that you will find someone who will always remind you of the reason of why
you started. Always remind you the reason why you should never ever relent back
on your goals. You can’t encourage yourself and at the same time pat yourself
at the back.
Let’s take like for
an example, company directors who open there industries and does not invite
people to come and invest in it , when there is a going up or a booming in the
economy he eats alone as a rich man he has become. But when there is a going
down in the economy, he either endures the loss alone or closes up. Mark
Zuckerberg, the owner of face book, even if he knew what and what to do in
other to create mighty software like face book but yet he still needed his
group, he still needed his team in order to forge ahead. The biggest company
online company Google did not get there alone, he still needed me and you to
strive add and surf on the internet and there the name stood. Not going far look
around and judge between a pretty much sole owner of a business and a business
firm which of them excels faster, there you will understand the essence of
being together, always remember that together we
stand and divided we fall.
Let
go of the ego,
It’s
not worth it.
Never
work alone!
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